The shift from Student to Stagnant Stake Holder-Customer-Student again!

The shift from Student to Stagnant Stake Holder-Customer-Student again!

I see hope!

Questioning takes place in business and learning-teaching-imparting and gaining knowledge is not a business or a trade or even retail…

It can never be.

We may have this notion that we have developed upon the old system of education, we may feel secure by removing the history…as you know we were required to remove history- The Raj of Invaders- but we removed our heritage, as anything 'old' is history for us.

The circle ends there-it starts from where.

What about the Day-Boarding Schools- Gurukul in fact- but costly.

Spending money-having air conditioned rooms, LCD, Laptops, comfortable transport system and facilities and communication tools also, cannot change the way of life.

My view can be seen in the laboratory on HOME. Parents do teach you and these so called development evidences do not add anything to that. It is the teacher basically, who teaches here, the 'parents'.

The facilities and all developmental evidences are not replacing the teaching methods; they have been devised to strengthen it. These are just facilities that have their presence when and as required.

One may not agree with what I say, but this agreement is what the 'reformed teaching' India had developed when there was a need to make minds ready for governance and fights. When it was concerned with learning- it remained plain learning.

From the experience, at present, I have an intuition, not to be mistaken as an excuse to support my defence, I am sure that we are heading to the culmination of this 'transition' in life.

Education will definitely return to the way it used to be, keeping the developmental tools with it and adding more of such inventions.

Inventing-Developing and Adopting new ways of imparting knowledge is to be seen as one-in fact to be believed rather than seeing it.

A teacher- Teacher I mean- must not be questioned, rather to be taken as a model, if not role model. THIS must be analysed as a 'Complete Presence' not fragmented incidents.

Fixations create bondage- being radical with liberal and broad-minded approach will let you live with your 'self'- the basic/real human being.

be with the "ALL" you have with you.

Religion has again come to the prime segment and the transition that was taking place for years has now bit visible to us, if we try to.
An North Indian celebrating Ganesh Utsav, or even attending Onam, Pongal, Jagannath Puja etc, celebrations in the neighbourhood, millions going to Mata Vaishno Devi, where as, it was considered one for Punjabis only in the last century.

What is happening...?

is it Religious Tourism on the line of Literary Tourism  and Medical Tourism in India..or it has nothing to do with this sense.
If not, then the chapter is closed and we will not analyse what exactly it means.

But

to the one who remains on this planet and want to see things happening, this is a treat to study the pattern of religions getting into each other and making a rainbow alike arrangement.

This is the process we call 'Evolve'.
This is why the term Religions is referred as ONE, though we never practiced the dictum, and this double think helped religion to make a liable and reliable base in our life.

Life is a transition, not from one pole to the other one, with no return.
It is something that has circular-vertical-horizontal- as well as static development of its essence.

Humanity is what we mean by Humanity.
It is not rocket science, its Life, it is in You and in the one sanding by your side.
Understanding things and people around you is far better and easy than trying to define the unknown.

All is same-interconnected and divine.

So, be with the "ALL" you have with you.


Parveen

Let it happen!!!

Mounting of things on your mind does have some planetary interventions?
Might be true....may be false too!
I had heard it as a dictum that when one is not able to resolve or understand the situations, he turns to superstitions.

DO I need to oppose it....
Do I have a justification to force on you and instruct you to leave the 'one' whom you have felt like supportive.
Life is about saying " it will be all right; you will do it; don't worry" and who so ever says or does this will definitely be preferred.
Is it the discomfort we feel when we are not asked but the 'one' goes ahead to 'baseless' superstitions?
Supporting that falling person will create trust and gratitude, and that is the same thing 'superstitions-fasts' creates.

Going to temple comes as a remedy...
Let it happen!!! or interrupt with Support only.
Don't indulge in the life, rather interfere...


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Writing today...the PULP and the School of thought..and the coming of HINDI Thriller Fiction...

its Freedom, not the Absence!

One must have faced the charge of being so much dependent on the 'advice' of 'others'.
It is not really dangerous to follow what the 'selected' advice or guide to...
It does not make you Passive!
The task of selecting the 'Selected' is more significant; and afterwards the One you consider your alter-ego or mirror must be asked for decisions when you need.
Life is to be un-complicated not to be questioned every moment.
There is nothing like Philosophical, its feelings only.
All to be acknowledged that comes from fellow beings.

reciprocal altruism

There has been a running- alive-perennial revolution in our mindsets. We have been reforming ourselves on all levels of life. It is not a thing to wonder when we see relations defined with more precision or even with more subjectivity. One has to believe in the capacity to understand and execute. One has to live in separate peace, yet aligned with everything around. Being self-conscious does not mean being selfish at all. It is the economics of relativity.
It is the science of reciprocal altruism.
I understand.

pieces .. two .. just two..

‘A Dream within a Dream’

Manipulation must not be an unfamiliar phenomenon for us. Being a human, I am caught in the survival war, so are you!

 Then, why don’t we accept it as our strength. To manipulate, you need more understanding of the situation you are in and you need to know people around you to make them accept you and your sayings. Thought is a more worked on thing when you have a plan and a defined motive.

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Willing to write something again on the Survivor’s Guilt, I worked on in my M Phil dissertation, in 2007-08. It is indeed interesting to see the after-effects of that. More understanding of the human mind has enabled me to take the Psychology of Mankind as a study again.

Communication Psychology, a term that I mentioned in a failed interview-where I was not eligible- has been passioned by me now.

I wish to see into this thing now.

fragments of thought..... re-arranged

Being alive doesn’t exactly mean to be alive.

Sounds contradictory?

That’s what the point is…

Being alive is being Contradictory . . . not to anyone. . But, to the one who is You.

I believe our true self is not the motivated one by default. It’s the dejected self that we carry in this body. . Now what we do with this is to be seen with interested eyes.

We constantly push it hard to the edge, to perform well. It’s a call about proving your existence or your presence to the things around you.

That’s where you contradict yourself. . . Being alive is motivating the Self all times. It is not just the inhaling or breathing.

It is being with your own self…Telling it that it is not alone. You will make it alive. When I start my day with some motto-some task, I tend to bring activism to me. When I look ahead, I look to the possibilities that I force on my existence. I behave as per them and try hard to keep the acceptance I got for the first ‘fulfilment’ of the expectations.

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I have lived with a thought or a rule that people are not to be disliked. They are as they are made of by their upbringing. But, for how long we curb the mind's working; the analytical side brings out the right and wrong for us. It is biased, it is bound to be.

When I think of myself, I am biased. How can one go against the self he carries within? Even if you do it few times or many times, you will have to get into your real at some point. That’s what Consciousness is.

And that’s what I call being ‘alive’.

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Establishing Separate Peace is what is born with us. For all my life, I have been thinking of non-philosophical understanding of the cause and effect of our being. Though, I am no one to give a treatise even now, still some sort of understanding stirs have come. I am usually not annoyed, literally, not with anyone. There may be some surface level expressions, but when I know or feel the context and cause of the actions of others, I am with them. This is my peace. Not Separate; but still not synonym with any other.

The Uniqueness brings Separatism and I add that to Peace.

Creating the delicious Separate Peace!!!

from the neighborhood....KoneykaCabin sent this..

We all have our likes and possessiveness for them! It is never possible for us to accept that something or someone whom we love and care can go away from us or we can harm them.

Strong Likes or Attachment for something leads to 'dislike'. It seems odd and bit foolish too to say that my compassion for something will generate dislike or disappointment for the same thing!

It happens dear!!!

If I am very compassionate for you...means I feel possessive too. I feel it is my right to have compassion and I also feel that when you, whom I think i love and care for, do something I haven't expected or thought of, I feel angry or get aggressive.

My 'liking' turns into dislike though in most transient form when I don't get attention.

But, I ponder over this question, why I started predicting your words and thoughts or doings. I could have waited for you to say what you have to say rather than putting words on your tongue. I could have restricted myself from completing your sentences without your consent.

Often, we all do this. Some people do it more often and some are on the most often frequency.

Definitely, we carry unending compassion for our loved ones. Then we become so possessive that we start predicting their behaviour and words. And when our "accurate predictions" do not match with the original, we are offended.

We have aggression and complaints.

The Simple reason behind this AGGRESSION is that We Stop Listening in a relation.

And ultimately, we the pseudo-sensitive hearts find the magic of the relationship lost!!!

The panacea for aggression, for anger, for detachment and disappointment and fear is in LISTENING.

talk to- the Separate Peace.

Peace is a narative of Absence- Absence of Nothing-or everything.
One needs to have togetherness with the intimate self of his being.
I mean being there-with your own breathing- enables you to talk to Yourself.

"Separatism" is all positive-generates self care-brings 'I' to you.

Establishing the Separate Peace is not required-  it is all pervasive.

I want to let myself- talk to- the Separate Peace.