fragments of thought..... re-arranged

Being alive doesn’t exactly mean to be alive.

Sounds contradictory?

That’s what the point is…

Being alive is being Contradictory . . . not to anyone. . But, to the one who is You.

I believe our true self is not the motivated one by default. It’s the dejected self that we carry in this body. . Now what we do with this is to be seen with interested eyes.

We constantly push it hard to the edge, to perform well. It’s a call about proving your existence or your presence to the things around you.

That’s where you contradict yourself. . . Being alive is motivating the Self all times. It is not just the inhaling or breathing.

It is being with your own self…Telling it that it is not alone. You will make it alive. When I start my day with some motto-some task, I tend to bring activism to me. When I look ahead, I look to the possibilities that I force on my existence. I behave as per them and try hard to keep the acceptance I got for the first ‘fulfilment’ of the expectations.

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I have lived with a thought or a rule that people are not to be disliked. They are as they are made of by their upbringing. But, for how long we curb the mind's working; the analytical side brings out the right and wrong for us. It is biased, it is bound to be.

When I think of myself, I am biased. How can one go against the self he carries within? Even if you do it few times or many times, you will have to get into your real at some point. That’s what Consciousness is.

And that’s what I call being ‘alive’.

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Establishing Separate Peace is what is born with us. For all my life, I have been thinking of non-philosophical understanding of the cause and effect of our being. Though, I am no one to give a treatise even now, still some sort of understanding stirs have come. I am usually not annoyed, literally, not with anyone. There may be some surface level expressions, but when I know or feel the context and cause of the actions of others, I am with them. This is my peace. Not Separate; but still not synonym with any other.

The Uniqueness brings Separatism and I add that to Peace.

Creating the delicious Separate Peace!!!

from the neighborhood....KoneykaCabin sent this..

We all have our likes and possessiveness for them! It is never possible for us to accept that something or someone whom we love and care can go away from us or we can harm them.

Strong Likes or Attachment for something leads to 'dislike'. It seems odd and bit foolish too to say that my compassion for something will generate dislike or disappointment for the same thing!

It happens dear!!!

If I am very compassionate for you...means I feel possessive too. I feel it is my right to have compassion and I also feel that when you, whom I think i love and care for, do something I haven't expected or thought of, I feel angry or get aggressive.

My 'liking' turns into dislike though in most transient form when I don't get attention.

But, I ponder over this question, why I started predicting your words and thoughts or doings. I could have waited for you to say what you have to say rather than putting words on your tongue. I could have restricted myself from completing your sentences without your consent.

Often, we all do this. Some people do it more often and some are on the most often frequency.

Definitely, we carry unending compassion for our loved ones. Then we become so possessive that we start predicting their behaviour and words. And when our "accurate predictions" do not match with the original, we are offended.

We have aggression and complaints.

The Simple reason behind this AGGRESSION is that We Stop Listening in a relation.

And ultimately, we the pseudo-sensitive hearts find the magic of the relationship lost!!!

The panacea for aggression, for anger, for detachment and disappointment and fear is in LISTENING.

talk to- the Separate Peace.

Peace is a narative of Absence- Absence of Nothing-or everything.
One needs to have togetherness with the intimate self of his being.
I mean being there-with your own breathing- enables you to talk to Yourself.

"Separatism" is all positive-generates self care-brings 'I' to you.

Establishing the Separate Peace is not required-  it is all pervasive.

I want to let myself- talk to- the Separate Peace.