We all have our likes and possessiveness for them! It is never possible for us to accept that something or someone whom we love and care can go away from us or we can harm them.
Strong Likes or Attachment for something leads to 'dislike'. It seems odd and bit foolish too to say that my compassion for something will generate dislike or disappointment for the same thing!
It happens dear!!!
If I am very compassionate for you...means I feel possessive too. I feel it is my right to have compassion and I also feel that when you, whom I think i love and care for, do something I haven't expected or thought of, I feel angry or get aggressive.
My 'liking' turns into dislike though in most transient form when I don't get attention.
But, I ponder over this question, why I started predicting your words and thoughts or doings. I could have waited for you to say what you have to say rather than putting words on your tongue. I could have restricted myself from completing your sentences without your consent.
Often, we all do this. Some people do it more often and some are on the most often frequency.
Definitely, we carry unending compassion for our loved ones. Then we become so possessive that we start predicting their behaviour and words. And when our "accurate predictions" do not match with the original, we are offended.
We have aggression and complaints.
The Simple reason behind this AGGRESSION is that We Stop Listening in a relation.
And ultimately, we the pseudo-sensitive hearts find the magic of the relationship lost!!!
The panacea for aggression, for anger, for detachment and disappointment and fear is in LISTENING.
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